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Writer's pictureArielle Fairley

The 30 Lessons I’ve Learned...

Updated: Jul 29, 2021

Hello, Thirty!!


I want to share with you thirty lessons I've learned that helped me evolve into the woman you see today. This birthday feels very monumental for many reasons because I can finally say I'm truly happy and not seeking validation from no one. I've been very intentional in all of my moves so far this year.


Also, I'm truly grateful that my blog has me given the freedom and confidence to share my thoughts and passion through writing. So, I hope these lessons help and encourage you to live your best life.


  1. Start a relationship with God

  2. Prayer is needed every day and all-day

  3. Make time to spend with God

  4. Worshiping God is necessary

  5. Get to know yourself- What you like, don’t like.

  6. Love yourself.

  7. Journal your thoughts- good or bad

  8. Go to therapy- if you think you need it.

  9. Heal from childhood traumas

  10. Repent to God— promotes vulnerability within

  11. Apologize to your self

  12. Spend time with your self

  13. Be intentional about your choices

14. Forgive people even though you don’t get an apology back.


15.Leave fear where’s at!


16.Write out your goals— long term, short term goals — vision board


17.Make a bomb playlist with your favorite songs that makes you feel good.


18.Travel by yourself— anywhere


19. Reinvent your self— change your style and clean out old clothes your closet


20. Find your tribe— your circle of friends (good guy friends or homegirls)


21.Create new habits— conquer your fears!


22.Allow love to come into your heart!

23.Have standards- in friendship, relationships, and with your family.


24.Boundaries are important in your life.


25.Exercise is important for the body. — drink a gallon of water a day.


26.Take pictures of everything— Make memories!


27.Celebrate your special moments— big or small


28.Pay your bills—your credit means everything, pay the car payment, rent, etc. (FIRST CAR PAID IN FULL on Jan.8th,2021!!! )


29.Elevate your mindset —Carry yourself like a grown woman or man! (EXPAND YOUR MIND)


30.Be unapologetic about your success! (don't let NO ONE dim your light)


©Being Fairley Fit

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